women, stop thinking most men talk before thinking.men, stop thinking most women think much before they speak.both are wrong, both are right.men can learn to stop micromanaging they’re own words, it really isn’t leadership of yourself when you have to watch your words all the time. women can learn that peter and the wolf is maybe a tale, but it’s true. don’t let your power of a more direct brain/tongue connection to be manipulated by your inner turmoils. men want to talk about how they feel once they thought it through, basically they’ll speak about it once it’s reasoned away. so they’re perceived as emotionless.women want to speak about feelings because they don’t see them as a final destination of thought. so they’re perceived as too emotional.*for the reason of keeping this digestable I use generalizations and yes, they’ll trigger.