my biggest success in life?simple, being involved in the upbringing of my offspring.I never had expectations of what they become.I simply devoted myself to let them be what they are and help them along the way, not to impose, but to provide the environment and the tools.it turns out, they(we all), know pretty well what they are, if they(we)’re allowed to go there.we say, we all want to be seen. the problem, most people don’t show themselves but an avatar that allows them to fit in. so even if they’re seen, they’re actually not seen for what they are, but for what they pretend to be. that is sadly ironic.success is to be yourself without the need of creating an avatar for real life.